Ask me anything, but I can't promise I'll answer   I am a Star Wars nerd, I love food, I'm Asexual and I am an artist in training. I blog whatever I want, whenever.
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Anonymous asked: How long does libido typically last? I've had it for a day or two now (kinda strong too) and I'm kinda scared of becoming allosexual. I love my asexuality


Answer:

perksofbeingace:

asexuality doesn’t have anything to do with libido. libido is just an urge like sneezing or an itch it doesn’t have a direction. you aren’t sexually attracted to anyone.
you’re still asexual.

fluctuations in libido can come from fluctuating hormones (for example the menstruation cycle), or maybe with out any obvious reasons.

I don’t know how long it lasts. sometimes it’s a fleeting moment or maybe an hour or maybe a few days. that fluctuates as well.

— 9 hours ago with 9 notes

patshit:

let’s get this straight 

it is not romantic to persistently pursue someone after they have refused you

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fanaticalforsupernatural:

for those who want it as a ringtone

i think if you use tumtaster, it’ll download the mp3 for you

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ruinlion:

a solider in WW2 had a friend the entire war on his side   this needs to be rebloged

ruinlion:

a solider in WW2 had a friend the entire war on his side   this needs to be rebloged

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— 1 day ago with 14323 notes
"For a long time, memory researchers assumed that memories were like volumes stored in a library. When your brain remembered something, it was simply searching through the stacks and then reading aloud from whatever passage it discovered. But some scientists now believe that memories effectively get rewritten every time they’re activated, thanks to a process called reconsolidation. To create a synaptic connection between two neurons the associative link that is at the heart of all neuronal learning you need protein synthesis. Studies on rats suggest that if you block protein synthesis during the execution of learned behavior pushing a lever to get food, for instance the learned behavior disappears. It appears that instead of simply recalling a memory that had been forged days or months ago, the brain is forging it all over again, in a new associative context. In a sense, when we remember something, we create a new memory, one that is shaped by the changes that have happened to our brain since the memory last occurred to us."

Slate Magazine, “The Science of Eternal Sunshine by Steven, March 22, 2004

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recoverydoesntgetadayoff:

Telling a depressed person to be happy is like telling someone who is choking to breathe. The presence of air is not the issue.

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Anonymous asked: so what youre saying is that you support cis people? after all theyve done to oppress you as a "queer" individual?


Answer:

onggiavu:

amazingatheist:

Did i just read something rational on Tumblr. Doesn’t this violate some law of nature? 

I’ve become less and less surprised that people are so hateful on tumblr because I am now acknowledging that tumblr is a form of social media for the youth. An estimated 30-40 percent of us are less than 25 years old (at least as of a 3 month old Tumblr statistic), and this means to me that there are so many of us who still have so much left in us to grow. To learn. To feel. 

Many of us have not yet known the kind embrace from a stranger, and because of that we’ve vented out our frustrations on this website. Collectively, we have known the same experience of pain, and can relate to one another. 

I plead that you do not let your heart grow full of anger. Let it be cautious, but not unwilling to be open to what the world may have in store for you, good or bad. Let knowledge flow through, let reasoning and compassion fill you. And if you cannot do that, at the least do not let ignorance cloud you. 

Reading posts like this always reminds me of this quote: 

stoppity:

Yes. I do support cis people. Just in the same way that I would support anyone else. If you are born cis, you cannot help that fact. You aren’t born into hatred. Being cis isn’t wrong. At all.

Have I been oppressed by cishet individuals? Absolutely. I’ve had the shit beat out of me all through high school because of my sexuality. I’ve been beaten, abused, held down, denied employment, and raped for who I am. By cisgendered, heterosexual people. But that doesn’t change the fact that my father is cis. My mother is, too. My friends are. My classmates. My roommate. My girlfriend, for fuck’s sake, is cis.

Just because I have been wronged by some, does not give me the right to hate all. I hate some. Not, by any means, all.

I hate those that have wronged me as individuals. As specific people, who have done specific wrong to me. My rapist was cisgendered. But, so is my eight-year-old niece. 

In short, Anon, yes. I absolutely support cis persons. Why? Because being born with uncontrollable traits is not grounds for hatred, under any circumstances. 

Two of the three boys that beat the shit out of me in high school, consistently, were black. Does that give me the right to hate all black men? Absolutely not. Do you see where I’m going with this, Anon?

No matter the circumstances, hating an entire group of people based on immutable traits is wrong. When you do harbor these prejudices, you are no better than those you claim to be fighting.

Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place.

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cityofsexyshadowhunters:

*puts John Green book between teeth* It’s a metaphor, you see. You put the killing thing right between your teeth, and it kills you. That’s it. You don’t have a choice.

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iampetershervheim:

rkidd:

d0esntmakesense:

This is probably the coolest GIF I’ve ever seen.

now there’s some perspective.

I once saw a storm roll like this once. It was beautiful.

iampetershervheim:

rkidd:

d0esntmakesense:

This is probably the coolest GIF I’ve ever seen.

now there’s some perspective.

I once saw a storm roll like this once. It was beautiful.

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edwardspoonhands:

hiddenlex:

X-Wing and TIE Fighter Engagement Rings - Paul Michael Design

Katherine, we’re getting a divorce…I need to propose again.

— 3 days ago with 10504 notes

kneelbeforemistressphil:

kaalashnikov:

your-continuum:

kaalashnikov:

do you ever sit there and wonder what life must be like for people without anxiety

like they just

DO THINGS

without worrying about them first

wow

Anxiety is an excuse

I hope you walk barefoot on a world of legos for the rest of your life

The first time Tony Stark had an anxiety attack he thought he had been poisoned.

think about that

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guiltyhipster:

"I enjoy that villain as a character, but their charm doesn’t excuse their actions and neither does their tragic backstory." 

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"Poor misunderstood baby!"  

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huffingtonpost:

My 12-year-old self is freaking out right now. This could quite possibly be the best throwback Thursday ever. 

Find out the details on where to buy this genius device here. 

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